Hey, I’m Andrea.
Okay… so where do I even start with this? Lol.
I’m a relationship coach. I’ve been one for like 10 years now. But honestly, that title still feels a little weird to say out loud because I never really sat down one day and thought, “Yes, THIS is what I want to do with my life.” It kind of just… happened. Slowly. Messily. The way most real things do.
Growing up, I was always the one people called when something went wrong. Breakups. Confusing situations. That whole “wait, what did he mean by that text?” crisis at midnight. That was me on the other end of the phone. Every time. And I didn’t mind. Like, I genuinely didn’t. I was weirdly into it. Trying to figure out what went wrong, who said what, why people do the things they do when they’re scared or hurt or in love.
Looking back, I was basically studying relationships before I even knew that was a thing you could study.
Then my twenties hit, and I became my own case study. Lol.
No, seriously though. I made some choices I’m not proud of. Stayed in things too long. Gave way too much trying to make someone feel comfortable enough to love me back the right way. That last sentence hurt to type, but it’s true. I thought if I was patient enough, understanding enough, enough enough… it would click.
It didn’t.
And that’s honestly what cracked something open in me. Not a breakdown exactly. More like, okay, wait. I need to actually understand what I keep doing here. Because clearly something isn’t working, and it’s time to figure out what.
So I went deep. Psychology. Attachment stuff. Communication patterns. Emotional intelligence. All of it. Not just from books either, but from real people. Real conversations. Sitting with women who were going through it and realizing… we’re all basically struggling with the same handful of things. Just dressed up differently each time.
Fast forward 10 years, and I’ve worked with hundreds of women.
And I want to be careful how I say this because I don’t want it to sound braggy or whatever, but watching someone go from “I don’t even know what I want anymore” to actually standing in their own life with clarity… that does something to you. It really does.
Okay, here’s the part I haven’t really talked about much.
Right before I got married, I had this idea. A blog. Something where I could just say the things I kept saying in sessions, except out loud, to anyone who needed to hear it. Not polished. Not a course or a program. Just honest writing.
But then life. You know how that goes. Marriage. Building things. Supporting people. All of it. And the blog just kind of sat in my head for years. I’d think about it and then talk myself out of it. Who has time? Who would even read it?
Well. Here we are.
Loverboard is basically me finally shutting up the part of my brain that kept saying, “Not yet.”
This is for the girl googling “why does he pull away” at 11 p.m. and then feeling embarrassed that she googled it. It’s for the woman who loves hard and keeps ending up confused. For anyone who’s ever wondered if they’re asking for too much. (You’re probably not, by the way.)
I’m not going to sit here and pretend I have all the answers. My own marriage is still teaching me things. We still have hard conversations. I still catch myself falling into old patterns sometimes and have to stop and go, wait. I know better than this. Growth is weird like that. It’s not linear, and it doesn’t stop just because you study it for a decade.
But that’s kind of the whole point of this space.
Not perfect advice. Just real talk from someone who’s been in it, personally and professionally, and wants to help you see your own patterns before they cost you any more time or energy.
If that sounds like something you need right now, stay a while.
I’m glad you’re here.
— Andrea
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